OMG I can't believe it.

[conspiracy]

So my wife and I have these friends whom we've been good friends with for quite a few years. Over the past weekend while we we're visiting they confided in us a startling revelation. I feel confident sharing this with you guys because I know they will never see this or if they did know who it came from.

They admitted to us that they are swingers. You know , the people that swap wifes or share them in a room with either one or more couples , swinger. We never had an inclination , never saw that one coming. Needless to say we are still in shock especially since they hinted at us getting involved.

I did ask why they do this and their reply was , "It actually makes us want our spouse more after it is over." I said That doesn't bring jealousy and they said "Nope cause we trust each other to the point where it's fun." I mean they said alot about it. I've never known anyone into this and honestly even though we are not going to be involved I only hope they don't see it as we are rejecting them. I mean , I don't want to throw a ten year friendship away just because of their lifestyle and their choices. Anyone been into this or know someone that has?

[MrJim]

Well, my wife went to a family member’s wedding a couple years back, and more recently she looked at her & her husband’s myspace pages, and they put in “swingers” under martial status, and the girl’s sexual orientation is now “unsure..” heh... that’s the closest I can get to an example. Needless to say the guy doesn’t mind...

[General Septem]

Two chicks at the same time is one thing, but not when you're married to one of them. :D

[starry123nights]

I don't believe that they both feel that way. I would bet the wife is just going along with the husband wants this long into their marriage. He'd better be careful though, she might like it better somewhere else. I mean after all they aren't jealous, it's just about sex. I think whatever two people do together is okay as long as it's just between the two of them.

[hitekredneck]

So my wife and I have these friends whom we've been good friends with for quite a few years. Over the past weekend while we we're visiting they confided in us a startling revelation. I feel confident sharing this with you guys because I know they will never see this or if they did know who it came from.

They admitted to us that they are swingers. You know , the people that swap wifes or share them in a room with either one or more couples , swinger. We never had an inclination , never saw that one coming. Needless to say we are still in shock especially since they hinted at us getting involved.

I did ask why they do this and their reply was , "It actually makes us want our spouse more after it is over." I said That doesn't bring jealousy and they said "Nope cause we trust each other to the point where it's fun." I mean they said alot about it. I've never known anyone into this and honestly even though we are not going to be involved I only hope they don't see it as we are rejecting them. I mean , I don't want to throw a ten year friendship away just because of their lifestyle and their choices. Anyone been into this or know someone that has?

hell, i've known quite a few "swingers" in my travels...for the most part, they're just like the rest of us, just a bigger libido...they probably didn't mean to let on, but it's kinda difficult keeping something like that a secret from friends and family...no, i'm not one, but like i've said, i've known quite a few...
and starry, believe it or not, from most of the couples i've met over the years that do that, it was a majority of women that initiated the idea of becoming swingers...(shrugs)...like i've said before, god gave us bodies and sensations to enjoy, not to hide from...uh, btw...i reiterate, i'm not a swinger...lol... :rolleyes:

[something]

I acctually had some swingers living in the near of here, but they moved to somewere else. I never acctually met 'em, so it didn't matter so much, but since you guys talked about it I could like good bring it up.